Perfect response in that situation. Terse, too – no spewing endless defensive BS. She knew exactly what you meant, then entered your frame.
A lot of men don't realise how needy their behaviour comes across as, even if it's non-verbal and they don't protest out loud. Women pick up on those kind of subconscious and body-language cues very easily.
Your point "This is why women test men they like more than ones they don’t" is a great one to remember, too. Women don't shit test low-status guys they have no intention of fucking. If she does it, it's a good sign. But this is where guys screw things up by trying to placate her ... test failed instantly.
Perfect response in that situation. Terse, too – no spewing endless defensive BS. She knew exactly what you meant, then entered your frame.
A lot of men don't realise how needy their behaviour comes across as, even if it's non-verbal and they don't protest out loud. Women pick up on those kind of subconscious and body-language cues very easily.
Your point "This is why women test men they like more than ones they don’t" is a great one to remember, too. Women don't shit test low-status guys they have no intention of fucking. If she does it, it's a good sign. But this is where guys screw things up by trying to placate her ... test failed instantly.
Good call.
Thanks man, It just about making sure she knows that I know what she is trying to do and the fact that I'm not going to take that.