WAYS TO REDUCE NAGGING FROM YOUR GF/WIFE
Women tend to nag men. Once a woman notices a man relaxing or not busy, she often starts restlessly nagging.
How can you lessen this behavior?
If you're in a relationship with a woman, expect some nagging.
It's just how it goes.
This behavior is irritating. It's also frustrating when men do it to women - I've done it intentionally to women, just to observe their reaction and indeed without fail, they dislike being nagged.
It's equally annoying when women do it to men.
However, it's predominantly women who engage in nagging, and at times, it appears they can't help it.
So it begs the question: Should a man choose either a peaceful life or a woman?
WOMEN HAVE THE TENDENCY TO NAG (AND LIKELY ALWAYS WILL)
The thing is it's impossible to live a rather peaceful life with a woman in it as it is to live alone.
In reality, the more individuals of any age, gender, or disposition you have in your life, regardless of the capacity the less peaceful your life tends to be.
The most peaceful existence is found in a hermitic lifestyle, whether living with a group of brothers in a secluded monastery or entirely alone in a cave or a cabin in the woods.
However if you desire companionship - as most of us do - you'll inevitably need to navigate the wants, needs, and differing personalities and perspectives of those around you.
Today's post focuses on minimizing nagging.
It's essential to understand that while you can reduce nagging, it's unlikely to disappear entirely.
The frequency of nagging varies depending on the woman's personality.
Hot-tempered women tend to nag more, for reasons we'll discuss, while cool-tempered women nag less.
If prioritizing maximum peace in a relationship is important to you, you might consider dating one of these personality types.
However, it's essential to recognize that there are tradeoffs involved in long-term relationships.
Additionally, the amount of nagging can be influenced by past experiences. if you've allowed a woman to nag you frequently and get her way, she's likely to continue doing so, even for minor issues.
Conversely, if women have faced resistance in their attempts to nag you into action, they may do it less often - but it's improbable they'll stop together.
The reality is that all women engage in nagging to some extent, but the frequency of nagging is heavily reliant on the individual woman and the established precedent in your relationship with her.
WHAT CAUSES WOMEN TO NAG
As far as I can discern, the inclination to nag in women is often linked to their desire for attention.
The thought process typically unfolds as follows:
A woman notices that a man appears to be 'unoccupied'.
She concludes that it would be preferable if the man were engaged in an activity involving her.
Consequently, she begins to nag the man to participate in an activity with her.
However, men who may appear 'unoccupied' to women are often preoccupied with activities they enjoy or deem necessary, such as:
Reading book
Playing an instrument
Watching movies, shows, or sports
Playing video games (Every man truly enjoys this)
Socializing and conversing with friends etc.
Whenever a man is engaged in downtime of any sort, the female brain interprets it as 'he is unoccupied / he is free'.
When a woman perceives that a man has spare time, she tends to seek ways to fill it herself.
Understanding women's behavior sheds light on their tendency to nag.
Women desire greater commitment from men, recognizing that the more a man invests in a relationship, the more committed he becomes.
Truth be told, women are not aware that they nag men to gain more commitment to increase their relationship security.
After speaking to multiple women about this, it points to the fact that a woman's simple justification for nagging is "Well, he was just SITTING there and it needed to be done!"
It's crucial to grasp that this impulse to nag is universal among women whenever they perceive a man in a state of leisure.
They feel compelled to engage him in tasks or activities, aiming to secure his attention and investment to bolster their sense of security in the relationship.
STRATEGIES FOR MINIMIZING NAGGING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
