THE BOYFRIEND DESTROYER TACTIC
Not exactly a tactic I'm proud of, lol.
Sometimes you'll approach a girl, hit it off, and things seem to be going well until she mentions she has a boyfriend.
If you prefer not to get involved with women who are already in a relationship, that's your moment to step away.
But if you're the type who isn’t too concerned when she says she has a boyfriend, you’ll need to know how to respond.
Here's the thing: about 79% of “single” women are in relationships at any given time.
So, unless you're meeting women in places where single women are more common (like bars, clubs, or dating apps), chances are you’ll come across a lot of girls who are already attached.
If you're doing day game, night game, or any approach where you're likely to hear about boyfriends, and you're interested in pursuing these women, you'll need to know how to handle the situation when she brings him up.
What Are Boyfriend Destroyer TACTIC?
"Boyfriend destroyers" refer to a set of tactics that a guy can use to make a woman think less of the man she's currently with.
The most successful boyfriend destroyers focus on the real shortcomings of her boyfriend, which can make her more open to the idea of being with someone else.
For example, telling her, "Your boyfriend seems like a total jerk," won't work if her boyfriend is actually a nice guy. She’ll just think you’re clueless and might even defend him.
But if her boyfriend is genuinely treating her badly, and you say, "Your boyfriend seems like a total jerk," it could be effective (However, you need to be cautious not to make him sound too much like a "bad boy," which could make him more appealing to her. More on this)
Coming up with effective, seemingly accurate boyfriend destroyers can be all you need to marginalize thoughts of a woman's boyfriend when she's deciding whether to proceed forward with you or not.
Who Do Boyfriend Destroyers Work Best For?
"Boyfriend destroyers" work best for guys who fit into the "lover" category rather than the "boyfriend" one. Competing with another boyfriend is tough unless her current relationship is struggling, it's usually a losing battle.
We've all seen or been the guy hanging around a girl who's in a rocky relationship, telling her she deserves better, hoping she'll break up with her boyfriend and he'll get his chance.
Most of the time, it doesn't work out.
I remember in college, a girl was talking about a guy friend who had been there for her through all the drama with her boyfriend, clearly trying to position himself as the next boyfriend. After she finally broke up, one of her friends asked, "What about Tom?" (or whatever his name was).
Her answer? "Oh no, I could never date Tom. He's too good for that."
This shows why "boyfriend destroyers" tend to work best for guys who are more like playboys—the type who are more seductive than boyfriend material.
Why does it work for them?
Because she already has a boyfriend.
It’s like trying to sell someone another car when they already have one they’re happy with—it’s tough. But you can sell them something different, like a snowboard or a motorcycle.
The seducer brings something completely different from what her boyfriend offers, which makes him more likely to succeed in seducing her, despite the fact that she’s already in a relationship.