SHE WILL NEVER MAKE CHAD OR TYRONE WAIT FOR S3X!
I came across a fascinating video clip from the @whatever YouTube channel (not a big fan of their podcast but it is what it is)
It talks about the idea (and reality) that women tend to get involved with "bad boys" quickly, while making "good guys" wait.
Listen to it and tell me what you think.
Years ago, I discovered something interesting.
Despite knowing some women had a reputation for being easy, they would still make me wait for sex.
This confused me, especially since I was into Game/Pickup at the time.
Here's what happens: if a woman sees you as a good catch, she will make you wait longer for sex.
That's why I suggest that if you're trying to get laid, don't show off your intellect too much.
Intellectual guys often don’t get laid!
Professional men don’t get laid!
College guys (outside of school) don’t get laid.
Men who seem to have their lives together don’t get laid unless they have game or learn it.
Paul Janka once said he got laid more when he was broke and unemployed in NYC than when he had a high-paying finance job.
Paul Janka, NYC playboy 👆
It wasn't just that he had more free time being unemployed.
It was because he focused on a sex-only mindset, since he couldn't rely on the "I have money" approach to get laid.
I know this goes against what we've been taught—that financially well-off and intellectual men are the ones who get laid.
Here’s an post I wrote on this, back in 2022:
Beware Of The Boyfriend Zone!
Here’s an excerpt 👇
Intellectual guys don’t get laid because we mistakenly believe that women find intellectual conversation sexy.
WRONG! 🛑
Intellectual men often end up in the friendzone or the boyfriend-zone.
"Good men" are also either friendzoned or made to wait indefinitely for sex.
Basically, “nice guys finish last.”
Women make good men wait for sex while sleeping with guys like Chad and Tyrone on the first date.
As I mentioned earlier, if a woman sees you as a good catch or a provider, she won’t want to ruin that by giving you easy sexual access.
So, she makes you wait as long as possible, teasing you without following through.
I faced this dilemma when I added too much intellectual vibe into my Game.
It backfired, and a lot of girls kept making me wait for sex.
Meanwhile, guys who weren’t smart or wealthy were getting instant access to sex.
Why?
In a woman’s mind, it doesn’t make sense to make a guy wait if she doesn’t see a future with him.
So, she thinks, “why not just sleep with him quickly and move on?”
And that’s what women do.
It wasn't until I stopped focusing on intellectual conversations and adopted a more carefree, bad-boy vibe that I started having more one-night stands and same-day sex.
I had to tone down my intellectual side.
Now, my approach is more about humor, teasing, and having fun rather than engaging in deep intellectual exchanges.
It was frustrating because I'm naturally a sophisticated, intellectual guy who enjoys meaningful conversations with women.
However, I realized that women don't typically sleep with men they see as intellectuals.
Even if a woman is an intellectual herself, she'll have intellectual conversations with you while sleeping with someone else who isn't as intellectually inclined.
I remember trying to pick up a sexy college freshman I met at a public library about ten years ago, when I was new to dating.
We got along great, meeting at the library and discussing her future plans after graduation.
She later became a chemist and a pharmacist, which made sense given her love for science.
Despite all our intellectual conversations at the library and our phone talks, she never slept with me.
This would have been fine if she wasn't sleeping with anyone.
But I later found out from her brother that she was sleeping with a scumbag, dropout, who treated her like sh!t
Looking back, it makes sense because women are often attracted to "toxic" bad boys who treat them badly.
We know this now, but I didn’t understand it 10 years ago.
I was confused why this seemingly good girl was involved with a jerk behind my back.
She didn’t owe me any explanation, of course.
I was just a guy trying to get into her panties, by way of matching her intellectual energy, which was a grave mistake..
Eventually, I adopted the jerk/bad boy persona with women.
My body count increased dramatically!
If you want quick, easy sex, present yourself as a Chad or Tyrone: a non-intellectual, unsophisticated, unambitious, and non-wealthy guy.
Women will see you as a sexual option only since you don't offer them other benefits like money, provision, or protection.
This explains why women sleep with certain guys quickly and string along others.
The guys she sees as potential future providers—the intellectuals and ambitious ones—won’t get sex readily or at all.
She’ll make these guys wait through multiple dates before sleeping with them, while getting intimate with Chad and Tyrone, whom she doesn’t see a future with.
In conclusion, some might argue that a nurse, lawyer, doctor, or professional woman would never be attracted to guys who don’t have their lives together.
Wrong again! 🛑
I can't count how many times I've slept with professional women by running toxic game, telling them I'm broke, unemployed, or that I don’t buy women anything.
So, don’t be fooled.
It's only when a woman loses her desirability that she truly wants to commit to a provider-type.
Even then, she might still sleep with Chads on the side because she was never sexually excited by her provider husband.
Don’t be the guy women make wait!
If you own your own business, don’t tell her before hooking up.
If you have a master’s degree, don’t mention it before hooking up.
If she finds out on her own, that’s fine.
You can only manage the situation from there.
Again: women don’t readily fuck guys who have their shit together.
I have my life together, but I’m smart enough to let girls believe that I don’t.
Alpha Male Strategies (AMS) on YouTube made a great point in one of his videos.
He mentioned that the girls he slept with and dated didn’t even know he drove a Lexus until much later.
He only showed them his old car, and they still slept with him.
If he had shown himself as a financially well-off guy, he would have been strung along, placed in the provider category, and had sex withheld from him.
With that, I’ll leave you with a good breakdown by Todd V.
Until next time
-MOS